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The excitement leading up to a break from school is almost palpable. Whether it’s spring break, winter break or summer, students everywhere can’t wait to throw the books aside and kick back. Although everyone needs a healthy dose of relaxation, more and more youth are starting to devote their free time to volunteer work and mission trips.

The pros of a mission trip could sell anyone on the fence about participating. If helping others isn’t enough of a reason, consider the trip a mini vacation. A change of scenery with a group of like-minded individuals set out to help the less fortunate could be the exact R and R you’re looking for.

The key to a good mission trip is finding the one that works best for you. Find what you’re passionate about and hunt down a group sharing that interest. Whether you want to go somewhere near by or as far as Haiti, options are out there. You just have to do the research.

A good place to start looking is local churches. You don’t have to be religious to participate and most churches are very lax on the trips, not to mention the local ties offer a sense of comfort and trust. Overall, the churches just want to help, not to convert everyone participating.

A participant of a mission trip to New Orleans, Kelly Parker, said she had a great experience with a local Methodist church.

“I’m Catholic, but this was the only group going to New Orleans so I went for it,” Kelly said. “It wasn’t weird at all; it ended up being a bunch of random college kids who just wanted to help and it was great. You’d be surprised how much damage still exists down there.”

Another option is to research other mission trip organizations. Places like Mission Discovery, Experience Mission and World Servants all coordinate mission trips at various times throughout the year without religious affiliations and with relatively cheap prices.

Josh Hallmark said he had an excellent personal experience with International Student Volunteers. This organization coordinates month-long trips that involve two weeks of volunteering and two weeks of vacation.

“I chose to go to Eastern Europe,” Josh said. “I spent the first two weeks working in an orphanage in Romania. The kids were just so awesome and grateful; they didn’t have anyone or anything really. The second two weeks were incredible. I hang glided, rock climbed, hiked, did everything imaginable and it was just really awesome. I got the best of both worlds.”

The key to a good mission trip comes back to passion. Grab a friend and decide what you want to do and how much time you are willing to spend doing it. If you find yourself with some extra free time, consider what you can do to help others. A quick trip could change your life and the lives of those you touch.

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Today was our first day working with CENIT. We are so happy to be working with this organization because many of its goals are in line with those of I Am That Girl. Although CENIT opens its doors to both boys and girls, it places greater emphasis on helping girls to succeed (as its name suggests) because they recognize the greater obstacles that face young females in Ecuador. Girls are less valued but often have more responsibility placed upon them because in addition to helping the family sell items to contribute to the income, they are also expected to care for their younger siblings.

CENIT is located in the slums of Quito, also called the barrios which is in the southern part of the city. Here there are several markets, some filthier than others. In one, banana peels and other fruits lay decomposing on the floor and the smell is overwhelming, if not unbearable. One of the programs that CENIT has created is to have volunteers head into the markets where there are many kids about—some selling things for their parents, others who wander with nothing to do, and all of whom have little chance at a real childhood or education. To top it off, most of the kids come from abusive families or live with alcoholic parents so they are constantly acting out and imitating what they see at home. Groups of volunteers work with the kids for a few hours, playing games, singing songs, emphasizing basic hygiene skills, and teaching simple skills that kids would learn in school.

Paloma and I each headed to the markets and spent some quality time with children. How so many of them simply longed for attention! Even though I don’t speak much Spanish, it was amazing how far just a friendly smile and holding their hand meant so much for many of them. I was lucky to still navigate my way though some basic one on one conversations with a few girls while we made clocks and practiced telling the time. Paloma had a similar experience while making bracelets with several girls. At the end of our time today, each of the girls kissed us on our cheeks and thanked us—so freaking cute.

Our work continues tomorrow and we are happy to have so much time left here, though it quickly seems to be running out. Paloma and I are also having great fun exploring more of the city (before dark that is!) and learning the bus system and the trolleys. The neighborhoods are all so much different from each other and there is so much to soak in. The people here continue to be some of the most friendly I have ever encountered and delicious food is literally on every corner.

R and P

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A few years ago, photojournalist Rachel Harbut saw a video on the Tsunami that struck Indonesia. Compelled by its message and images, she showed a friend the same video. Equally mesmerized, the friend proceeded to ask her what had happened. Given that the tsunami tragedy was one of the deadliest natural disasters in recorded history, not to mention its status as headline news, Rachel was stunned. She says, “Not hearing about a natural disaster wiping over 230,000 people really says something about your world awareness, if not character.”

Inspired by the video, Rachel was on to something big. Her love for newspaper publication and passion for world awareness, left her no choice but to go digital. With just her laptop and YouTube, she started creating media presentations to promote world issues, educate her peers and encourage people to get involved. “I want people to know how fortunate we are in the U.S. and how easy it is for us to help. We have so many resources,” Rachel says.

Want to make a difference but don’t know where to start? Rachel suggests starting with the Internet. “It’s as simple as using Google. You’ll be amazed the little effort it takes to make a huge difference,” she says. Supporting an organization through online participation is an easy way to make a difference. Rachel recommends Nabuur.com, an online volunteering platform that links online volunteers with local communities in Africa, Asia and Latin America. Through the site, volunteers and local communities learn about each other, share ideas and find solutions to local issues.

Social networking sites are another great resource because they help establish connections and enable us to reach a global audience. Facebook Causes, for example, is a simple and easy way to make a difference in the world around us. “Use the Internet for good things and be a part of something that lasts. The Web’s resources can make a positive impact across the globe… it’s simple. It’s logical. It’s only fair,” stresses Rachel.

The crisis in Democratic Republic of the Congo (DRC) is one of the world’s largest humanitarian crisis and an issue dear to Rachel. This global issue is responsible for  45,000 deaths each month and reigns supreme for committing the world’s worst crimes against children and women. Considered the most deadly war since WWII, the conflict in DRC is in need of urgent attention.

Have the desire to help but find it difficult to donate? “You can still help even during hard times and the recession. It’s not always about money. Spread knowledge and be compassionate about something other than yourself,” Rachel says.

Through videos, Rachel hopes to redirect the world’s attention and focus of the media. “Don’t be fooled by the Britney Spears image. There’s much more to life than that. For those that thrive on peace building or just willing to help, here’s an opportunity to make a big difference. Collaborate with others, encourage healthy ways of living and promote peace. Don’t forget to share it with the rest of the world,” Rachel advises.

Check out one of Rachel’s videos:

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This past summer, I had the incredible opportunity to travel to Africa for two months.  Most of my time was spent in Egypt but, for one week, I traveled down to Swaziland (in Southern Africa) and worked alongside a group from my church.  I didn’t know what to expect. The media covers Africa in a consistent light but being there firsthand is a whole other story.

During our time in Swazi, we worked with kids at the preschool, doing construction for new classrooms, visiting students’ homes, and helping to organize a soccer tournament.  The kids we were very sweet and ultimately adorable.  Every time we approached the school building, they would attack us with hugs. You couldn’t help but be filled with mixed emotions: happy to see beautiful smiling faces but heartbroken that they live in such a poverty/AIDS stricken area.  Being in a country where they have so little materially and yet are so filled with joy, makes you think about your own life and the blessings we tend to overlook.

Do you ever think we have too much stuff? Stuff ends up distracting us from being able to really appreciate things we so easily take for granted.  In America, we get caught up in wanting the new “it” thing and fail to notice all we have, which, as a matter of fact, is more than enough.  Just take a second to look around you.  You may see a cell phone, iPod, credit card, your favorite book, or even something as small as chapstick or bottled water.  How often do we look at these things with genuine gratefulness?

One of my last days in Swazi, I was on the bus with two girls from the school. Shuffling through my backpack, I realized I had a few extra granola bars and I gave them to the girls to eat. I cannot even fully explain to you how excited they were. They got the biggest smiles on their faces…for a granola bar.  If we could adapt a bigger attitude of appreciation (like these kids have) and become more grateful for the things we do have instead of ungrateful for the things we don’t, our outlooks on our own lives would begin to change.

I’m not saying we need to get rid of all our possessions. However, in America we do have an excessive amount of stuff we could live without.  We ought to be thankful for all the blessings God has given us.  When you have the opportunity to be thankful, take it. Just as an experiment. Try it out. I highly recommend it; your life will be changed for the better.

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If you’re planning to travel this summer, consider embarking on a volunteer vacation. Whether you hope to stay in the States or head abroad, programs are popping up all over that offer the opportunity to fulfill your wanderlust while contributing to humanitarian and environmental causes.

Many service excursions are structured to be all-inclusive and accommodate their participants, often at a high cost to the organization. Vacations usually include a place to stay, meals and transportation throughout your trip, the coordination of volunteer placement according to your goals — not to mention training as well as ensuring your comfort and safety. So, it’s no surprise that most volunteer vacations can actually be expensive, as groups pass the cost along to the volunteer. There are projects out there, however, offering lodging deals and discounts for a little beach clean-up or hiking trail repair.

To find a trip that best matches your altruistic tendencies and your budget, check out these select organizations:

Build. Take a Global Village trip and contribute to the building of a home, a community and new beginning for those in need — all while immersing yourself in the local culture of the urban or rural location of your choice. http://www.habitat.org/

Strengthen. Receive college credit or arrange a customized group experience to aid in the empowerment of individuals and communities through Amizade.  http://www.amizade.org/

Discover. The Bob Marshall Wilderness Foundation will put you to work for a day or a week on the trails of Montana where you will hike, explore and learn the skills necessary to manipulate the backcountry scenery along the Continental Divide.  http://www.bmwf.org/

Grow. Work on an organic farm from North America to the Middle East in exchange for lodging, meals and the opportunity to learn about farming, gardening and sustainable living.  http://wwoof.org/

Teach. For less of a tourist vacation and more of a true humanitarian expedition, work with the villagers of Nepal, Kenya, Mexico, Guatemala or Bolivia to end poverty by leading and connecting them with important resources and skills.  http://choicehumanitarian.org/

Even though you’ll be working instead of just relaxing, your soul will feel revived after giving back.

photo by dirk’s photography

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The recession has forced many of us to spend Friday and Saturday nights at home comfortably plopped in front of the TV instead of out enjoying the nightlife. Money is tight and every penny is sacred. Fun can still be had though, as long as you get creative. Here are some free ideas:

Take a Hike. Itching to enjoy the fresh air and springtime sun? Find a path you’ve never traveled and do some exploring with a hike or bike ride.

Free Community Events. Several cities offer free events throughout the year. During spring and summer you can usually find free concerts in local parks. Visit your city’s website and check out the events happening near you.

Rearrange Your Furniture. Moving things around in your house can add a fresh feel. Not only can it keep you busy for a full afternoon, but when you’re finished it’s like a brand new space.

Trade it in. Tired of watching Titanic? Trade it in for some new entertainment. Lots of local used CD, bookstores or movie stores exist if you look hard enough. If there’s nothing in your area, check out some swapping Web sites like TitleTrader.com, SwapADVD.com, or SwapTree.com.

Starry Night. If you want a romantic night out with your honey, try stargazing. Do some research on constellations online or find star maps at the library. Then head out to a private spot where you can gaze at the stars and into each other’s eyes.

Volunteer. Many of us forget that volunteering is a great way to spend the day. Try helping out backstage at a local music festival or art show. If you love kids, why not spend the afternoon at a Ronald McDonald House? Check out more opportunities at VolunteerMatch.org.

Cupboard Potluck. Enjoying good food with friends is always fun, but you can make it a little more interesting by hosting a cupboard potluck. Invite your friends to bring dishes created with only the ingredients they have in their cupboards.

Check out Craigslist. You might be surprised what you can find posted on Craigslist’s “Free” section. Aside from some great deals on furniture, you can find items that will surely keep you occupied. A quick search unearthed a posting for free firewood (perfect for an evening bonfire) and even a free pink golf cart to take for a joyride.

Garage Sale. It may be hard to part with some of your most beloved items, but consider how great it will feel to declutter your home and make some cash while you’re at it. A community garage sale can increase foot traffic and help you interact with neighbors.

Board Games. These always tend to gather dust in the closet but can equal tons of untapped fun. A big group of friends playing Cranium is a great way to keep you laughing all night long, while a quiet game of Scrabble with a bottle of wine makes for a cheap, yet competitively entertaining evening in.

photos by adam courtesy of lauren e. sayoc and phil romans

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There’s a reason why there’s nothing but reruns on television during the summer – motivation to get up and go!  Don’t be dissuaded to think there’s nothing to do if you aren’t twenty-one.  There are so many possibilities in every city if only we’d take the time to look and the energy to mobilize our friends (which can take persuasion, but will be well worth it)!  Scan this list of ideas for inspiration, keep an open mind, and explore something new.  Be creative, stay safe, and have fun!

Night Crawling

1. Museums After Dark
The after hours air warms up and museums all over the city open their doors for a mix of culture and socializing.  Many host monthly soirées featuring art and live music, while others feature weekly film presentations.  Some even host hands-on creative activities specifically for teens 13-18 on Friday nights.
2. Glow in the Dark Miniature Golf
Putt away the night on a glowing golf course!  Remember to wear white for the ultimate glow-in-the-dark experience.
3. Midnight Riding
Whether you’re a beginning bicyclist or training for the next Tour de France, a city- wide bicycle ride could be one of the most enjoyable ways to spend a Friday night.  Organized by city-based bicycle cultures, many large rides welcome cyclists of all ages and attract hundreds of people.  Usually participants pedal at an easy and steady pace all around the city.  Just remember to slap on your helmet before your ride!
4.  Beach Bonfire
Who says you need sun to be at the beach?  Many beaches close at 10, which leaves plenty of time to enjoy the sunset and a glowing fire by the ocean.
5. Summer Sledding
Otherwise known as ice blocking, this simple yet exhilarating activity requires a park with grassy hills, blocks of ice, and towels.  Drape a towel over a large block of ice (which can be found at grocery stores) and race down the slope!  Just make sure the path is clear, and wear jeans that can get dirty!
6. Creative Cinema
If you love films, you absolutely must check out movie screenings shown at cemeteries.  Many host screenings of classic movies where DJ’s spin before and after.   Or, watch a movie vintage style by driving into a drive-in.  These relic theaters may come few and far between, but they are a must-go (especially in the summer).
7. Ten O’clock Strike
Many bowling alleys leave their doors open until the wee hours of the morning,  featuring themed nights such as “Lights Out” or “Vegas Night” with prizes.  Music, karaoke, and dancing may lure bowlers from the lanes to be entertained all night long.
8. Venue Venture
You may have already circled all the dates on your calendar for when your favorite band/singer/pop star is stopping by, but why not venture to enjoy new, live music?  Support a local artist by popping into a café or enjoy a touring Brazilian Jazz band to expand your music arsenal.
9. Kick Back and Laugh
Watch some live comedy sans the laugh track and you’ll be smiling until the corners of your mouth ache.  Comedy Clubs vary in their age requirements, so check the local ones nearby.
10. Spectator Spectacular
Support a performance!  Watch a dance troupe, play, or musical.  To spice things up some productions are extremely creative.  For example, you can check out Shakespeare by the Sea or contemporary dances choreographed with live DJs.
11. Dance the Night Away
There are tons of venues that cater to an 18+ crowd and others promote specific nights welcoming all ages.  Keep an eye out for these, or gather your friends for a dance party of your own!  Make it fresh and change the location – in the woods, an emptied swimming pool, an attic.  Music is mandatory; disco ball is optional.

Daylight Drifting

12. Do Good
There is always a huge selection of volunteer opportunities to choose from.  Research what interests you and you may be surprised at what you find!  From gallery touring to film screening, library reading, or even bicycle burrito delivering,     volunteering is a great way to do good and pursue an interest.  If you’re wary of a time commitment, try volunteering for a specific event like a festival coming to your town.  This would concentrate your time to the length of the event.
13. Kick Up Some Dust
Whether you’re an intense athlete or a leisure nature walker, the summer is the perfect time to pursue what you love and stay active.  Join a recreational sports team, swim, walk, cycle, hike – be in the outdoors, stay active, and have fun!
14.  Thrift Hunt
If you love to shop, stretch that dollar as far as it can go by spending a day hopping around thrift stores.  They offer vintage one-of-a-kind clothing and décor for dirt cheap!  You have to paw and sort through piles of clothes but when you find something you love, it will be well worth it.
15. Real Research
Studying may be the last thing on your mind this summer, unless you’re the subject being studied!  It sounds a bit quirky, but tons of universities look for participants to help with research involving simple yet intriguing tests or surveys.  Most require participants to be 18+ but why not try something interesting and be paid a few dollars while you’re at it?
16. Nourished by Nature
Wake up early to beat the heat and take a nature hike to re-energize.  Or, have a picnic at a local park to read or play Frisbee.  You’ll still feel miles away from the roads and towns.
17. Have a Cup of Coffee
Have you heard about the debut of the $15 cup of coffee?  Why not make it an outing and try it?  Or, if you’d rather not spool out the dough, why not try something equally random and ridiculous?
18. Words Unfold
Make your reading list come alive by scanning the paper for your favorite writers stopping by local bookstores to give readings.  Often followed by a Q&A, this is a great way to speak with the person who created your favorite fantasy world.
19. Creative Cluster
Gather your friends for a collaborative art project.  Bring out all your arts and crafts supplies and a large canvas like butcher paper or a broken door.  Play music and get creative!
20. Pro-Productivity
Take advantage of the extra time and learn something you’ve always wanted to do! Go horseback riding, dabble in Photoshop, pluck some guitar strings, or even learn to crochet.  Keep at it and you’ll most definitely feel accomplished by the end of summer.
21. K.I.T.
Read and write to I Am That Girl!  (Well, of course this would be in here!)  Keep checking in for updates and let us know your questions, opinions, and stories – we’d love to hear from you!

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