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Jun
iatg Gets Down and Dirty with the Boys
by Diane Ozanich
1 Comment | Posted by thatgirl in Making Waves
Last week iatg sponsored its first major event: The Man Panel. Five seriously sexy boys took the stage and leveled with the female audience about what guys are really looking for.
However, we’re not so cruel as to strip them down and string them up without so much as a cocktail first. So, to get the blood pumping our favorite cover band, Unusually Suspect (featuring the dreamy sportscaster-turned-lead-singer Brent Biedel), sang us all our favorite tunes including a rousing rendition of “Hit Me Baby One More Time.” Folks were pouring into our cozy upstairs bar space at Westwood Brew Co, where we had our own private bar and rockin’ bartender who spent the night serving up the oh-so-affordable $3 pints. Things were off to a good start as highly fashionable young ladies were getting their grooves on to the delight of a surprisingly large number of men who were smart enough to come out and support our Ladies’ Night.
After everyone was sufficiently loosened up, we brought out the Man Panel: Pro-surfer Bron Heussentstamm, Dirty, Sexy Money star Seth Gable, Survivor: Exile Island winner Aras Baskauskas, Amazing Race All Stars champ Eric Sanchez, and the simply adorable Yogi Roth, aka USC quarterback coach, aka DREAM BOAT. Alexis and Emily, armed with pages of questions compiled by our online readers and the stacks of multi-colored post-it notes written by our live audience, made no bones about what we girls have been dying to know.
I’ll be frank and say that many of their answers didn’t exactly surprise me: don’t be clingy, say what you mean, a bit of “don’t play the game, but here’s how you play the game” stuff. The good parts came when they touted how girls with a purpose and confidence are the sexiest kinds (that’s what makes us iatg-ers such total knockouts), and how we girls forget that guys have feelings, too. (When girls get into the “men are dogs” vein and claim “you just can’t trust ‘em,” how is that supposed to make them feel?) Hearing that men can sincerely value trust and see it as a sacred bond was heartwarming, indeed.
What was really AMAZING about the Man Panel, though, was not necessarily hearing what five guys had to say (let’s face it, they’re limited to their own experiences), but what happened afterwards. As the boys and girls of the audience went back for another round of cocktails, they started talking, really talking, about what mattered to them in relationships. Can you imagine mingling at a bar and instead of flirtatious BS nonsequiturs, having real conversations about what you really want??
And even though at the end, I still managed to get propositioned for sex from a married man (some guys just never get it), I did see a few other phones exchanging numbers that looked very promising. So while many men still remain utterly mysterious to me, our Man Panel did decode the sex at least enough to let me see that the good ones are not only out there, but they’re looking for girls just like us.